Guidelines to Boost your Child’s Confidence and Self-esteem

A child in his/her schooling stage needs all the positive influence in his/her life, and it is the responsibility of the parents as well as the teachers to guide them through this stage. Pressure in studies and activities can somehow hamper a child’s self-esteem, this is the time where a child need a positive and a realistic feedback on his or her ability. Our school is one of the best English medium schools in Kalyan and our aim lies in transforming the child’s ability through knowledge, enabling them to meet the challenge in life. Thus, it is important to instill a sense of self-esteem and confidence in his/her attitude.

Children with a sense of confidence feel accepted and competent in every field, this improves their capabilities as well as their self-image. In order to help your child grow up into a confident, positive being, St Mary’s High School, one of the best English medium schools in Kalyan offers some guidelines for parents to follow:

  • Give Feedbacks- A positive feedback is always an effective way to lift your child’s confidence. A child measures their worth and achievements through the feedbacks they receive. As a parent, do compliment your child whenever he/she achieve something, this will motivate him/her to excel even better.
  • Allow them to be Independent- Giving your child an opportunity to prove his/her worth is a good way to raise his/her confidence. Let your child make small decisions once in a while, this will prepare him/her to have choices and be more responsible.
  • Let them set a goal- Allowing your child to have a goal will allow him/her to be competent in working hard. Setting a reasonable goal will help him/her in avoiding feelings of failure in the future.
  • Support their Interest- Every child has his/her own capabilities, and it will be wrong to judge them by bringing a comparison with others, allow him/her to choose his/her own interest and support them.

With these given guidelines allow your child to be what they want to be. Do not force them, instead support them, give them the liberty to go with his/her own choice, and he/she will find their way to be self-confident.